When you know your core values you know:
- your heart
- who you long to be
- and the life you want to live
It’s the first step in setting goals that you can keep because they add purpose to your life and bring you closer to the life you desire.
Step #1: Go through the whole list of core values and write down every one that strikes a chord. This is who you’d like to be.
Abundance
Acceptance
Accessibility
Accomplished
Accountability
Achievement
Acknowledgement
Active
Adaptability
Adequacy
Adorable
Adventure
Affectionate
Affluent
Aggressive
Agile
Alert
Aliveness
Altruistic
Ambition
Amusement
Anticipation
Appreciation
Approachable
Approving
Artfulness
Articulate
Assertiveness
Assurance
Attentiveness
Attractiveness
Audacity
Availability
Awareness
Awe
Beauty
Being the best
Belonging
Benevolence
Boldness
Bravery
Brilliance
Buoyancy
Calmness
Camaraderie
Candor
Capability
Care
Career
Carefulness
Celebrity
Certainty
Challenge
Charm
Chastity
Cheerfulness
Clarity
Classy
Cleanliness
Cleverness
Closeness
Comfort
Commitment
Compassion
Competence
Competitive
Composure
Community
Community Service
Concentration
Conformity
Connection
Consistency
Contentment
Contribution
Control
Conviction
Conviviality
Cool Factor
Cooperation
Cordiality
Correctness
Courage
Courtesy
Creativity
Credibility
Cunning
Curiosity
Daring
Decisiveness
Decorum
Deepness
Delicacy
Delightful
Dependable
Determined
Devoted
Devout
Dignity
Diligence
Diplomacy
Directness
Discernment
Discretion
Disciplined
Dreamer
Drive
Duty
Dynamic
Eager
Economic
Education
Ecstatic
Education
Effectiveness
Efficiency
Elegance
Empathy
Encouragement
Endurance
Energy
Enjoyment
Enlightenment
Entertainment
Enthusiasm
Excellence
Excitement
Exhilaration
Expediency
Experience
Expertise
Exploration
Expressiveness
Extravagance
Extrovert
Exuberance
Fairness
Faith
Fame
Family
Fascination
Fashion
Fearless
Fierceness
Fidelity
Financial Independence
Firmness
Fitness
Flexibility
Fluency
Focus
Fortitude
Frankness
Freedom
Friendliness
Frugality
Fun
Gallantry
Generosity
Gentility
Genuine
Giving
Gracious
Grateful
Gregarious
Growing
Happiness
Harmony
Health
Helpful
Heroic
Hobbies
Honesty
Honorable
Hopefulness
Hospitality
Humility
Humor
Hygiene
Imagination
Impact
Impartial
Impeccable
Independence
Ingenuity
Inquisitive
Insightful
Instinctiveness
Integrity
Intelligence
Intensity
Intimacy
Intuition
Inventiveness
Investing
Joyful
Judicious
Justice
Keen
Kind
Knowledgeable
Lavishness
Leadership
Learning
Liberty
Liveliness
Logic
Longevity
Love
Loyalty
Making a Difference
Mastery
Maturity
Meek
Mellow
Meticulous
Mindful
Moderation
Modesty
Money
Motivation
Mysterious
Neatness
Nerve
Obedience
Open Minded
Openness
Optimistic
Order
Organization
Originality
Outlandish
Outrageous
Passion
Peaceful
Perceptive
Perfection
Perkiness
Perseverance
Persistence
Persuasive
Philanthropy
Piety
Playful
Pleasant
Plentifulness
Poise
Polish
Politics
Popularity
Potency
Power
Practicality
Pragmatic
Precision
Preparedness
Presence
Privacy
Proactive
Proficient
Professional
Prosperity
Prudence
Public Recognition
Punctuality
Purity
Quiet
Realistic
Readiness
Reasoning
Reasonable
Recreation
Refinement
Reflection
Relationships
Reliability
Religious
Resilience
Resolute
Resolve
Resourceful
Respect
Restraint
Reverence
Rich
Rigor
Sacredness
Sacrifice
Safety
Sanguine
Satisfaction
Security
Self Control
Selflessness
Self Realization
Self Reliant
Sensitivity
Sensuality
Serenity
Service
Sexuality
Sharing
Shrewdness
Significance
Silliness
Simplicity
Sincerity
Skillful
Smart
Sophisticated
Solidarity
Solitude
Speed
Spirit
Spirituality
Spontaneity
Sports
Spunk
Stability
Stealth
Stillness
Strength
Sufficiency
Support
Surprise
Sympathy
Synergy
Tactful
Teamwork
Temperance
Thankful
Thorough
Thoughtful
Thrifty
Tidy
Timeliness
Traditional
Tranquil
Trusting
Trustworthy
Truthful
Understanding
Unflappable
Unique
Unity
Useful
Valor
Variety
Victor
Vigor
Virtue
Vision
Vitality
Vivacity
Warmth
Watchful
Wealthy
Wholesome
Willful
Willingness
Winning
Wisdom
Wittiness
Wonder
Worthiness
Zeal
Zest
Zing
Step #2: Now look over the words you wrote. You’ll notice that some words have a similar meaning, so create a group for those words. Bundle all the words into groups that you can. Give each word grouping a name that encompasses the meaning of the words in the bundle.
Step #3: Narrow the groups down to the 10 most important to you and remove the rest. Now look at the ten titles and number them in importance from 1-10.
When you’re finished you’ll have a clear snapshot of who you want to be and what’s important to you.
“Your values become your destiny.”
Ghandi
Our list of core values was created years ago, before we knew about Paul McKenna’s Living Your Values program. But when we discovered his self-hypnosis on living your values for the perfect day, we knew it would be a great companion to this exercise. He uses the top 5 values.
To learn how to use your list of core values to set goals, see our article The Insiders Guide to Effective Resolutions